iPipeline Recipient

Sarah Ibrahim

AMOUNT: $5,000
SCHOOL: Drexel University

August 5, 2005一 the day I watched the world I knew crumble before me. My mom passed away unexpectedly during childbirth. There’s never been a day that I made it my sister’s fault, but there are so so many days filled with suffocating grief and a multitude of ‘what-ifs’.

Her death also left us with an excessive amount of unpaid medical bills and one less substantial income to cover day-to-day expenses. Had the story unfolded differently, maybe with the intervention of life insurance or another safety net, maybe my dad wouldn’t have had to make the sacrifices he did, nor would I have had to sacrifice my childhood and step up at home the way I have throughout the years. The possibilities are endless, maybe he would be more emotionally attuned, maybe there would have more consistency in our lives, maybe I’d be attending UChicago, maybe I’d have completely different goals for myself that were not entirely based in survival.

My dad immigrated to the U.S just four years prior, only knowing the English he had learned in school, and had no family of his own here, besides his wife. My parents’ reasons for coming to the U.S included wanting to provide their children with a credible education, a safer life, more opportunities, and the chance to create more for themselves than my parents were ever given the opportunity to.

My mom was the breadwinner of our family while my dad was just starting up his business. The emotional and financial impact of her passing was evidently devastating on our lives. After my mom passed, it would have been so helpful to my dad if he had moved back home to Egypt. Instead, he stayed and stood strong by the idea of giving his kids a better life.
He worked seven days a week, ten hours a day, still to this day to give us the life he set out to. We rented our basement out to a family friend to help meet mortgage payments, and I started working the second someone would hire me.

There were a plethora of sleepless nights full of wondering how we’d keep the lights on next month or food on the table. We lived tighter than paycheck to paycheck, more so penny to penny. I worked three part-time jobs simultaneously while being a full-time high school student. My drive’s always been to validate my immigrant parents’ sacrifices and carry the goal of creating a better life for myself and being authentic to myself, which was something incredibly important to my mother.

I’ve been very aware of our financial situation since the moment she passed. Everyone around put immense pressure on me to succeed and gain some type of scholarship to be able to continue my parent’s and I’s dreams of creating success and security. I worked incredibly hard in school, got into my top local school (because out-of-state was not plausible no matter how badly I wanted it). Drexel University is a pricey institution, but one that I knew would be able to propel me into the future that I desire. This scholarship would help tremendously helpful in sustaining my time here and allow me to focus on school instead of “how do I pay rent, tuition, and bills at home?”.

The Life Lessons Scholarship is made possible through individual donations and corporate sponsorships. Your financial support can make a world of difference for a young person struggling to afford a college education due to the loss of a parent or guardian.

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